If you need help now

The Other 10K is not a crisis service and nobody reads what you write here. These are staffed by people, free, and available right now.

988 Suicide and Crisis Lifeline

United States

Call or text 988. Free, confidential, 24 hours. For yourself or for somebody you are worried about.

Crisis Text Line

United States, Canada, United Kingdom, Ireland

Text HOME to 741741 in the US. A trained volunteer answers by text, which is easier than speaking for a lot of people.

Samaritans

United Kingdom and Ireland

Call 116 123, free, 24 hours. You do not have to be suicidal to call them.

Emergency services

If someone is in immediate danger

Call 911 in the US, 999 in the UK, 112 across the EU, or go to your nearest emergency department.

Somewhere else in the world

We would rather say we do not have a number for you than give you one that has changed. findahelpline.com lists free, confidential services by country and keeps them current.

Your own therapist

If you are seeing somebody, most practices have an out-of-hours number or an answering service, and a lot of therapists would rather hear from you between sessions than find out afterwards. Whatever you have written here will still be here later.